I found this about installing tightvncserver and vlc. tightvncserver is demoed on youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5QCoh8S0N4&feature=youtu.be.
Looks like the network file sharing is not working on my RPi, yet. So also installing vncviewer and pyneighborhood.
Note: On Raspian I noticed that sudo apt-get install vnc-server aliases to the "tight" vnc.